Sometimes a bit 'of humor can help get things into perspective and relieve a little stress in a given situation. Mediation is a great tool for solving the problems of divorce, but not in every situation, especially in a situation where the parties are set for a particular outcome.
In this spirit, I offer a list of 10 individuals who did not work because the mediation of divorce. While some of these 10 characters may seem silly, which all contain a grain of truththat mediation can make a futile exercise of the parties. You can play a certain state of mind that is not really conducive to negotiations and an agreement to divorce.
I use the second person singular pronoun "you" for purposes of clarity. But "you" can the spouse, not necessarily. These are not in a specific order, although the former is very real.
1. You want to win, no matter how high the cost may be. This can be a financialand an emotional cost.
2. You and your spouse can not agree on what day it is, let stand, to speak politely to each other.
3. If you ask them a question, the answer is: "Talk to my lawyer."
4. Do you think that mediation is for pansies and weak people wanted. Examples of famous people who are easily distracted imagination, and which are engaged in mediation or negotiation, Madonna (in her last divorce), and baseball player AlexRodriguez.
5. Believe, is in talks, a sign of weakness.
6. Do you think there is only one solution to a problem.
7. You think, "My Way" is a lifestyle, not just one of the songs of Frank Sinatra signature.
8. You think, "War of the Roses" is a fiction film. This is a fictional account until you remember a particularly terrible news on a local newspaper.
9. Would rather subsidize costs your lawyer as separate Country ClubAssets with a spouse.
10. They are stuck in the past. The point is not the present or future, with the aim of finding solutions.
If neither of these are in your divorce or there are significant enough, perhaps mediation is an alternative available to a contested divorce. For more information about mediation, you will receive a copy of divorce: Take a free guided tour of the result.
© Vivian Rodriguez
